email hantu is when u received an email in which u dun even know who da heck da person is, and dat person have been stalking u for quite sum time he/she cud crapping about ur life..
what shud u do? just like facing any other hantu,
1st.. buat2 tak nampak or buat2 tak tau
2nd.. walk away hoping dat u'll never have to face dat again
3rd.. baca la apa2 yang patut supaya dat hantu wont kacau u again..
basically, dat is wut happened to my dearly friend.. but apparently my friend tidak mengamalkan ketiga2 yang i sebutkan tadi.. so bila dia :
1st: melayan hantu tersebut; consequences dia ialah hantu tersebut akan terus mengacau
2nd: reply plak balik.. lagi la hantu tu ligat mengacau sebab tau gangguan dia diterima dan disambut baik :P
3rd.. risau gile dengan keadaan tu, according to psychological explaination is dat he tend to put 2 and 2 together and started to hurt those people around him..
so.. ingat.. sesiapa yang berdepan dengan apa jua jenis hantu.. tak kira la d actual ones or email2 hantu nie, amalkan la 3 cara yang i highly recommend kan di atas..
selamat mencuba..
or shud i say, renung2kan dan selamat beramal.. hahahhahahahhahahha ;)
Email Hantu??
Merdeka Day Out
For one whole day today, i was out..
Pagi2 lagi dah kuar jadi hakim untuk final pidato kemerdekaan peringkat UMS dan sekolah-sekolah.. yang memalukan, semua pemidato2 sekolah are waaaaaaayyyy better than pemidato2 uni.. buat malu jer.. 3 orang yang jadi hakim this morning, Abg Fahmy as ketua hakim, Fa and Me tiga2 tepuk dahi tgk kualiti pemidato2 UMS.. adui.. mmg la UMS ni dah ketandusan pendebat2 n pemidato yang baik.. or mmg ada but then bakal tak tercungkil, we never know.. kan? anyway.. dalam keempat2 finalis pemidato sekolah hari ni, ade sorang yang i can really see his potential.. darn good.. terus abg fahmy offer nak bagi recommendation klu dia nak masuk UMS.. n i do hope he'll consider la..at least ade gak UMS pnya harapan utk masa depan..huhuuhu
abis pidato, me n few fwens went to 1borneo.. i bought 2 new shirts.. then went and watched ghost house.. ntahapa2 ntah movie siam nie.. konon2 citer hantu.. tapi ntahapa2 ntah.. struktur hancur.. konsep lari.. penghujahan pun tak dapat kaitkan dengan konsep.. uhh.. sudah.. my mind dah terlalu byk unsur debat smpai movie pun nak dibidas.. :P
so malam nie stay je la kat rumah.. quite honestly, i dun even feel kemeriahan of merdeka day.. malam tadi pun i slept at 8.. sedih? maybe.. every year my late abah will call me to remind me not to go n celebrate merdeka kat luar.. i remmber da first year i'm in sabah.. maxis line ade prob until abah cudnt call me.. he tot dat i went out n sumthin happen.. da whole nite he cudnt sleep.. he even called everyone to da extend callin pak guard UMS to look for me!! abah.. abah.. i know he loves me dearly.. tapi i swear to God I was in my room stuck with my assignments.. so.. yesterday nite, despite no one called me to remind me not to go out, i stayed in my house.. tido, to be exact.. n coincidently i dreamt of abah.. of hugging him tight.. gosh i miss him.. just to see his smile n da warmth of his love... i cudnt 4gt da times he always hug n kiss me.. *sigh* but i know he's in a good place now.. watching over me.. n he will always be alive in my heart.. only Yassin and doa dat i cud give him everyday.. n a prayer so dat Allah will take a good care of him, n place him di kalangan orang2 yang beriman.. Ameen..
anyway.. maghrib tadi dah masuk bulan ramadhan.. cepatnya masa berlalu.. n moga2 ramadhan nie membawa kita semua seribu rahmat.. to everyone.. saya mohon ampun dan maaf sekiranya saya pernah membuat salah dan silap.. semoga kita melangkah ke bulan ramadhan ini dengan keinsafan supaya kita boleh mengerjakan ibadah puasa dengan sempurna.. ameen..
i'm bored.. really.. got no better things to do..
Pisces - Your Love Profile |
 Your positive traits: You're very tuned into your lover's feelings - and always doing something caring. Sweetness - you're the most romantic person your partner has ever met. You get easily swept away and are a total delight to fall in love with. Your negative traits: You are super duper sensitive and find it hard to get out of a sad mood. It's difficult for you to tell your sweetie no, even when you should. You often tell your partner what they want to hear, instead of being honest. Your ideal partner: Is straight from a fairy tale - the man or woman of your dreams Is a total romantic, with an artistic or creative side Loves to express their love to you, in all sorts of unique ways Your dating style: Dreamy. You like traditional romantic dates, like picnics in the park and candlelight dinners. Your seduction style: Fearless - you try what your partner suggests, no matter how unusual. Loving. You'll take your pleasure second, if necessary. Internal. A lot of your enjoyment takes place within your head. Tips for the future: Be more realistic. Your romantic ideal is nice, but it may just not happen. Let go of your fear of rejection - it's holding you back from being with your true love. Open yourself up to a new love. The person you think you want make not be the one.. Best color to attract mate: Seafoam green Best day for a date: Friday |
another blog thing..
You are a City Girl! |
 Whether you live in the city or not, you've got the heart of a city girl. You're up on the latest trends - what's hot in music, food, and fashion. And you love to be on the go. Your perfect day is filled with tons of fun. Your perfect guy is a city guy, so head to LA, NYC, Sydney, or London to find him! |
wait a minute.. i have been to sydney.. y havent i found "da one"? :P
i am bold.. :P
You Are Extremely Bold |
 When you want something in life, you'll just go for it. You're never afraid of taking the plunge, even if there's risk involved. You don't shy away from speaking up or speaking your mind. You live life as it should be lived: with total enthusiasm and no fear. |
Alahai UMS...
it's 12:53 in the morning and i'm still fresh.. just got out from shower and eating a maggi cup.. :P
so.. anyway..
i just got back from final debat NC.. ade a few things yang mmg boleh dipertikaikan..
first.. ntah la.. penganjuran kali ni teruk giler.. not to say tahun2 lepas tak teruk, but by far this year is the worst.. konon2 ade new slot which kitorang bleh undi thru sms siapa yang boleh jadi personaliti debat this year.. n we were like.. "ok.. sumthing new.. " ( although ade yang question, ni debat ke another AF-wannabe's.. ) but then smpai end of the majlis pun tak buat.. apparently ade technical problem yang menyebabkan benda tu cancel.. but then malu la.. cause diorg dah inform the VIPs.. pengacara majlis pun sengal giler.. dah la lembab.. penuh labuci.. banyak plak buat kesilapan.. seriously it portray image yang memalukan pada orang luar.. it made me think.. diorg ni perlukan kursus on how to handle a majlis... even better a program.. i remmber back then when i was an outsider.. sume orang cakap klu UMS yang menganjurkan majlis, confirm "meletup".. as in makanan, tempat tinggal n hospitality mmg UMS antara yang terbaik.. recently, masa debat alam sekitar, ramai giler yang tak puas hati, termasukla kitorang yang mmg from UMS.. yang nak mengadap orang2 luar ni la yang tebal muka.. kesian gak to Dr Ramzah, Dr Yasmin, Abg Fahmi and kitorg pendebat2 UMS pun kena sama tempiasnyer..
so ntah bila la benda ni nak berubah.. i have no idea.. alahai UMS...
secondly.. finally AB make a change masa persembahan.. all these while it will always be nasyid.. sampai bak kata Dr Yasmin, tahun baru cina pun persembahan dia nasyid.. so this year ade la nampak perubahan bila diorg persembahkan tarian tradisional sabah..bukan la kitorg against nasyid.. cuma kadang2 kesesuaian majlis tu.. macam deepavali or tahun baru cina, aper kerjanya buat nasyid.. yang tak best nya pulak, ade plak tersesat sorang "lelaki" dikalangan penari2 perempuan tadi.. n memakai plak baju perempuan.. i have nothing to against this group.. but then again.. takkan la depan orang luar pun u nak buat macam ni, kan? i was sitting with other hakim dari luar.. n i saw their reaction... ade yang bisik2.. this guy pun menari.. pergh.. kalah kitorang yang perempuan.. gemalai giler.. alahai UMS
3rd.. the quality of final debate kali ni itself.. adoi.. nak decide siapa kalah mmg senang.. tapi nak decide siapa menang.. rasa macam dua2 tak deserve.. it wasnt me the only one yang cakap macam tu.. tapi ntah la.. it shows dat pelapis debat sekarang tak macam dulu.. sekarang nie tegur sikit pun dah buat muka.. abis cammane nak blajar.. so sendri mau ingat la.. alahai UMS..
pics...
uch dya agree on this? haha.. see my face? it says " hmmm.." hahahahahaha...Debat NC 2008
Just got back from debate NC, final untuk junior..
hmm.. apa conclusion yang ble dibuat?
lemme see.. all i can say is dat penguasaan konsep masih terlalu lemah.. which is frustrating.. there was one time dat day i was the judge for one of the match.. it was the worst in the history i think, i cudnt decide who will win, even the best speaker pun tak bleh i nak decide... bukan sebab hebat sangat, but then sebab teruk sangat i rasa macam nak kalahkan je dua2.. adoi.. beban juga jadi hakim nie..
yesterday nite i spent my whole nite chatting with an old fwen of mine, Mike.. good for him he is doin his PhD at Stockholm Uni in Mathematic.. he was so busy these days dat he doesnt even have time for himself.. it makes me think, how wud i be studying kat US or Canada ( i havent decided) nanti.. alone, miserable and single... huhuh.. i cud be both good and bad thing actually. Good, becuz i have wider range or guys to choose ( haha ), or bad ( i wud be bored being alone ).
Speaking of my love life, just so everybody noe ( cuz i'm tired of answering to other people's qs), yes i am single. BIG FULL STOP. no more question.
owh well.. i better say no more, or else i hafta start a whole new blog.. haha.. so.. chiao..
Just created a new blog..
finally.. i created a blog for public to read ( now i'm wondering, who da heck will read? haha ) i mean.. at least da next time people ask me "lyla, u ada blog?" i dun mind giving this blog add.. my last blog was too screwed up for me to pass around ( in another word i'm not so proud of my last blog because of the content; which probably i hafta to explain y, but not now, perhaps in my next post )
anyway..
just got back from KT for Debat Kemerdekaan..well.. UMS just managed to break into semi.. a lot of shocking results this time.. like.. urmm.. how UPM kalah ngan UPSI.. UMS with UPSI.. n of course UIA ngan UTP.. but like Encik Tajul said, not everyone will perceive the way u do.. perhaps para hakim didnt look at the issue the way u do, n that is when convincing power is very much important..
speaking of power of convincing.. nak buat camana ke.. not even one of UMS yang perempuan cakap ala2 announcer kat KLIA.. i mean.. take other girl debater, semuanya ala2 lembut n suara manja2.. haha.. bukan la kitaorang tak leh manja2 gak ( hahahahahaha) but then i dun see the need of manja-manja'ing in debate.. dat is just not our style..those who terasa in any way, i am sorry.. but i'm just saying wut i feel, n takde niat untuk mengatakan yang debaters who use suara manja2 n lembut2 tu tak patut.. but like i said, dat is just not our (UMS ).. so in another words, maybe kitorang ni takde power of convincing la kot..
ape2 pun, i do believe sum people prefer the knowledge itself speaks rather than convincing people with your charm..like this afternoon, i went and see my fav lecturer, Mr. Ismail to discuss on my thesis.. I have a total respect to this one lecturer.. I mean.. eventhough he is just a normal lecturer ( basically becuz dia reject to be Vice Dean ) tapi dia different in his very own way.. he might not have the charm of convincing people ( especially he is known as "i dun care" lecturer) but his knowledge speaks it all..n so does he.. he have more respect to people who speak with knowledge rather than just charm itself.. so it was a great relieve to know that knowledge is utterly important.. more than just using whatever assets dat u have to convince people. so i guess i'm gonna just stick to being myself; tough, aggresive, not afraid of speaking up, n most important, i dun speak nonsense.. n i'm proud to say that i'm smart.. *wink*
owh well.. ade lagi debat lain such as debat FOMCA, royal and IKIM, which i can almost assure everyone i wont join IKIM.. hahaha.. those yang close to me mesti tau sebab ape.. :P
so for now i better concentrate on my thesis, puasa yang dah nak dekat n my lil mojo yang makin kuat makan..
